Until now, I still have difficulty in embracing failure. And the more I avoid it, the more I have.
Sometimes I go to the other extreme, saying it's ok to fail when I still by nature don't like failure. A more balanced view is perhaps to see what does it take to avoid failure. Often, the best way, not the perfect way, is to fail often, hopefully fast, and to get back up again.
Another is to accept the fact of life. For example, I don't like to fail in pleasing people. But in life, there are some people whom we cannot please no matter what we do, just like oil and water. Most of the time, I unconsciously assume other people have no full control that I can still influence their decision, forgetting that, they have their opinion and may not be easily influenced.
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