Thursday, 25 October 2018

Setting a time to be thankful of

Time flies. It has been more than 2 weeks since the last time I wrote here. That time writing three things to give thanks everyday seem to be doable. But time has shown that it is far more difficult than I thought. On the contrary, I found myself taking my wife for granted.

After I was back from business trip, I rushed for the deadlines of the annual review cycle. I also insisted to go to my friend’s daughter’s 1st month and talked non-stop with my wife’s relatives while I ignored her and my daughter. So the first thing I need to remember to be thankful are my lovely wife and daughter. I have considered them as part of myself that I often ignored them. In my theory, they are number 1 while actual practice showed that they are at a lower priority than helping others and doing my work.

It’s time to acknowledge the damage of my bad habits and to work on how to change them. Remember that self-scolding is not helpful as it robs the energy to change. So embrace the current limitations and focus on what we can do.

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